2) COMMENTARIES: 10-YEAR ANNIVERSARY OF GERRY BERGHOLD'S DEATH
Tom Steichen (BB President):
Ten years ago, on August 29, 2008, Gerald J "Gerry" Berghold died at age 77.
More
than eleven years before, on January 11, 1997, Gerry had founded the Burgenland Bunch,
saying in his first newsletter: "I've just faced up to the fact that we really are a
Burgenland genealogical group."
In his final message, less than a month before his death in 2008, he wrote: "I've decided to
let nature take its course. I no longer need the strength to support Molly [his recently
deceased wife] (although I wish I could still do that) and there is no other reason for me to
ward off the eventual effects of cancer ... I'll no longer write articles or newsletters and
will do no more research. It's time to stop and watch the morning and evening sun color the
patio."
In the eleven and a half years between, he wrote 176 newsletters, grew the BB from a handful of
correspondents to a group of 1,647 members listing 5,378 Burgenland surnames, oversaw a website
that he proudly claimed as the "largest source for English-language information about
Burgenland," and established a staff of 15 to support it all. While the BB continued to grow
after Gerry's passing, he still retains credit for overseeing the "lion's share" of each
statistic in the table below:
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Members |
Surnames |
Queries |
Staff |
Newsletters |
2008 |
1,647 |
5,378 |
3,918 |
15 |
176 |
2018 |
2,658 |
8,388 |
5,733 |
15 |
289 |
Increase |
1,011 |
3,010 |
1,815 |
0 |
113 |
% Gerry |
62% |
64% |
68% |
100% |
61% |
Gerry often stated that his number one goal was that the BB live on past his time;
given another year or so, the BB will have existed as long without him as it did with
him, so that goal has been obtained. In fact, among current staff members, Fritz Königshofer,
myself, Klaus Gerger, Bob Strauch, Margaret Kaiser and John Lavendoski have been staff members
longer than Gerry was (and Frank Paukowits will soon join this group of long-timers). The
BB was and is Gerry's baby... but as the chief caretaker of the baby (i.e., as BB
President), I've held that title longer than Gerry did. He still holds the title for
longest incumbent Newsletter Editor, at eleven and a half years (and will continue to do
so for some time, as Hannes Graf filled that role for the first two years after Gerry's death,
and I have only been Editor for eight years).
Regardless, the BB thrives because of its staff, currently consisting of 15 members
(though the count has varied over the years). In total 35 individuals have been staff members
over the years, with the most recent three joining us just this past February. As Gerry said in
his farewell message to the staff: "I can't tell you how much I appreciate your efforts in
support of the BB and your very personal loyalty to me and the goals of the BB. You have become
close friends as well as volunteers in a great undertaking." Those feelings remain true
today.
Another goal of Gerry's, also attained only in these subsequent years, was to see
an English edition of Walter Dujmovits book, "The Burgenländer Emigration to America,"
appear in print. With a translation by the BB's Bob Strauch, publication of that edition
occurred in 2013 and, so far, over 1320 copies have been purchased. Gerry would have been
ecstatic about that!
While there are many things I could speak about, I'll close by noting how vibrant and active the
"official" BB Facebook Page has become. Its administration and membership provide a vital
resource to Burgenland researchers, always ready with immediate help and encouragement. Had
Gerry lived to see it, he would have been proud to be a member!
Vanessa Sandhu (BB E-mail List Manager):
The BB represents a welcoming hand, reaching out from the past to teach us about our ancestors,
our homeland, and our traditions. I am forever grateful to Gerry Berghold and all of the BB
staffers for all of the vast knowledge that has been collected within this group. This group is
a treasure for all generations, past and present.
Growing up in West Coplay, Burgenland pride is everywhere. It is such a part of everyday life,
you don’t realize how different it is until you move away. The village is tiny, but full of
Burgenland descendants. Wedding receptions were always held at the Männerchor. If you
look at the census and didn’t take note of the town name, you’d think that you were reading the
house list from Inzenhof. Three of my four grandparents were of Burgenland descent. My maternal
grandparents were the most loving people you could ever meet, and they always took the time to
talk with us and teach us their recipes and traditions. My Grammy would teach us German words
and tell us about her parents and their home in Woppendorf. My Pop-Pop was the expert goulash,
paprikash, krumpis pogasca, and soup maker. My Grammy was the baker, and taught us
to make delicious Kipfels and Dobos Tortes. I have so many fond memories of
growing up with them, listening to polkas and sitting underneath their beautiful walnut trees.
Sadly, my dad passed away in 2003 at the age of 50. His family was from Eisenberg an der Pinka
and Inzenhof. Aside from a few cousins my age, we have no elders to turn to for information
about that side of the family. My grandfather was a very private man, quite opposite of my other
grandparents. I only knew that his father was killed in an accident at the local cement plant
when he was young. It was very painful for him to talk about, so he never did. I was desperate
to know more about them. Armed with some old photos and letters, I decided that I was going to
find them. This is where this wonderful group came into my life. I felt like I had won the
lottery when I found the Burgenland Bunch’s website. Gerry’s articles were fantastic. I
spent hours upon hours reading the old newsletters. The Burgenländers Honored and Remembered
section gave me names, birth years, and cemeteries for all of my ancestors! My research took off
from there. I found out so many things about them—all of the painful struggles they endured—from
leaving their homeland and families behind, to losing 2 out of 3 sons to tragic industrial
accidents. These people were strong and brave. Their determination was so inspiring and
empowering. I am so proud to be descended from such incredible people. I am now completely
genealogy obsessed, and I love helping others trace their Burgenland roots.
I know this phenomenal group will continue to help Burgenländers on both sides of the sea for
many years to come. I am so grateful that Gerry had the foresight to start this newsletter, and
I applaud Tom and all of the contributors who have shared their knowledge and expertise over the
years. Our ancestors and their heritage are a rich and beautiful part of every one of us. They
live on through us. With the fantastic resource that is The Burgenland Bunch, they will
live on forever.
Frank Paukowits (BB BH&R & DNA): A Tribute to Gerry
I can’t believe that it is already ten years since Gerry Berghold, the founder of the
Burgenland Bunch, passed away. Not only did he create a tremendous on-line service that
provides critical information for people researching their genealogy and family roots from the
province of Burgenland, but he did it in a gracious, warm-hearted and supportive manner.
Unquestionably, he was a visionary who was able to rally key people to his cause to develop a
cohesive and comprehensive database for genealogy enthusiasts.
My first substantive and lengthy contact with Gerry came in the Fall of 2006. I had visited
Austria in the Summer of 2006.The trip not only encompassed Austria, but also included Croatia
and Slovenia. In the Croatian portion of the trip, I tried to reconstruct the trek made by our
ancestors from Croatia who were fleeing the Turks in the 16th Century. The places I visited in
Croatia included Koprovnica, Sisak, Kostajnica, among other places. These areas had been
identified in the historical writing of Johann Dobrovich, who had chronicled these events and
which was translated from German to English by Frank Teklits, a long-time BB member.
During the process of writing up my trip report, Gerry was tremendously supportive of my
efforts. He offered valuable suggestions at every step in the process. The end result was a
newsletter Article (#157- dated Nov. 2006) that was informative to our membership and satisfying
to me, its author.
Gerry just knew “how to share the stage.” As long as he was providing useful tidbits to
our membership via the Newsletter, he was totally committed to the staff. One of the most
important things that Gerry did is that he left his work in the hands of an able successor, Tom
Steichen. Tom has remained true to the cause, and has continued publishing high quality monthly
newsletters. The Burgenland Bunch continues to thrive as the most formidable resource
available for genealogists studying their Burgenland roots. We all have to be thankful for the
vision that Gerry had, and Tom’s commitment to continuing Gerry’s legacy.
Ron Markland (BB St. Louis Research, 2010-2014, retired):
I had a few conversations with Gerry, however most of my involvement with the BB started after
my trip to Austria in 2009. Those conversations with Gerry were very encouraging and caused me
to dig deeper into my quest for family. Surprisingly, I received an email from a person living
in Vienna asking if I was seeking information on Alouisa Aufner. It turned out that the person
asking was the granddaughter of my grandmother’s brother -- a brother that we had not known even
existed. One thing led to another and, six months later, I was in Vienna with my personal guide
and newly-discovered cousin, Brigette, beginning a tour of the Burgenland and the long lost
family that was left behind.
This caused a "trip report" to be written to then-editor Hannes Graf.
Gerry's shoving me in the correct direction was something that I shall never forget. It
is amazing how the BB has changed so many individuals ability to find our family background.
Without what he started, many would have given up and missed opportunities similar to mine.
Thanks Gerry!
Theresa McWilliams (BB St. Louis Research): BB Remembrance and Review
Those of us who knew our grandparents and great-grandparents like to reminisce about times spent
with them. For the most part, these are good memories—and a thing of the past only to be relived
in our minds or shared in conversations with others. There are some who never knew their
grandparents and great-grandparents or may have lost them at a young age. Either way, if you are
reading this, you are likely part of a group of people who wonder about the details of their
lives. In seeking and discovering facts about them or their connections with other persons in
the family tree we experience a sense of exhilaration. Being able to search for our Burgenland
roots and connect with relatives living or deceased is a privilege never before so easily
accessed. Information about our ancestors that, not so long ago, seemed impossible or too labor
intensive to attain is there for the taking thanks to the generous and seemingly tireless
efforts of a small group of people on the Burgenland Bunch staff. We owe a debt of
gratitude to the founder of the Burgenland Bunch, Gerry Berghold, and to those who keep
alive his dream of making Burgenland research so available and accessible. Indeed, the branches
of our family trees are limited only to the amount of time we are willing and able to spend
researching them. Many of us have experienced being transported to a different world, and then
brought back to reality, sometimes at 2 or 3 in the morning, coming away with much more to learn
than we set out to do in the first place! How fortunate we are as Burgenländer descendants to
have had the likes of Gerry Berghold and his cohorts create such an invaluable resource.
When I found the Burgenland Bunch six or so years ago, it allowed me to make connections
with other descendants, as it provided surnames, villages, addresses, dates, Burgenländers
Honored and Remembered, and more. For our St. Louis group, that has led to many hours of
enjoying each others' company and discovering connections between us and/or our ancestors to
each other. The stories my grandfather told about his home in “the old country” often
brought a tear to his eye as he relived his happy childhood memories. In 2012, my husband, my
brother and I visited our grandparents' villages, Deutsch Schützen and Strem. The connections we
made in those three short days were amazing. We met several distant relatives and even a few
first-cousins twice-removed who were still living in the ancestral homes. Some of them are now
deceased so we are thankful for finding the BB when we did. Before the trip, I discovered a few
people in my social circles who had roots in Pernau and Eisenberg an der Pinka and was able to
bring back photos of their ancestral homes and villages. Without the BB, the trip would have
been great but, because of this vital resource, it was nothing short of stellar!
I have come to the realization that there are those who are interested in connecting exclusively
with ancestors, while others hope to make connections with distant cousins and those who share
similar lineage. A beautiful feature of the BB website is that it allows us to connect us with
people in both eras, past and present. The BB ultimately brings wonderful opportunities to those
just seeking information or additionally wanting to share memories. It allows us to keep
traditions alive, connect with living relatives and pass along our family legacy. It has been
instrumental in igniting a community of descendants here in St. Louis that we would not be privy
to without Gerry Berghold, his dream, Tom Steichen and others that keep it going. Vielen
Dank! Nagyon szépen köszönjük!
Mary Reilly (BB E-mail List Manager, 2010-2016, retired):
I am grateful to Gerry Berghold for starting the Burgenland Bunch. It has been a great
source of information and support. He deserves our thanks and praise. God bless him.
Alan Varga (BB Links/URL and Recipes Editor):
The Burgenland Bunch is an incredible resource for those with roots in this area of
former Austria-Hungary. While there are other newsgroups and niche websites for other areas of
the former empire (ranging all over Europe, not just these two modern-day offspring), none that
I have seen have explored the history of their region as deeply as ours. The historical
information contained in our various pages, from Burgenländers Honored and Remembered to
House and Village lists and LDS links and Maps is a solid foundation
which I have not seen elsewhere. But there is also context provided by the newsletters, which
were the core of the organization when Gerry started it many years ago, and links to websites of
history and culture in both Europe and the U.S. The BB has managed to evolve and stay relevant
thanks to many contributors over the years, and evidenced by several regional groups, a related
Facebook page, and information about DNA testing.
Both of my grandparents had died before I finished college, and my father never spoke much about
their lives—or his, for that matter. Growing up, I heard Croatian whenever I visited them and I
knew the names of their friends but I really knew nothing of who they left behind or why. I
joined the Burgenland Bunch to try to fill in some of these gaps, not expecting more than
a couple of names.
I got so much more than that, starting with reading the newsletters. I learned about the history
around 1921 and about the people who stayed behind. I eagerly read about return trips of
descendants of the original immigrants who made pilgrimages to the Heimat and were able
to start new relationships and friendships. And most importantly, I discovered there were
others, just like me, to fill in missing pieces. It’s sad that, by the time we start to take an
interest in our own family histories, it is sometimes too late because the knowledge of older
relatives is lost to failing memory or even death.
Through the BB I have made friends in other cities, state and countries, and have been able to
share experiences and knowledge. Our staff has been key in fostering this feeling of
camaraderie, and the group continues to welcome more new members every month. I am thankful to
have a resource like this to help me with my own family history, and I want to help others just
starting their search in any way I can. I am grateful to be a part of this organization, for
those volunteers who have retired, and for those who will take up their posts to keep the
Burgenland traditions alive.
Fritz Königshofer (BB Austro-Hungarian Research):
Being able to participate in building the BB was my finest achievement. Gerry and you [Tom] were
inspired and creative leaders who always found the right subjects and words. With my best
wishes, Fritz
Klaus Gerger (BB Vice President):
My first e-mail contact with Gerry Berghold dated from the late nineties when we found out that
we were second cousins, sharing grandparents from the Pöltl family of Rosenberg near Güssing. We
met many times in Austria and in the US, where I was guest in his and Molly's home in
Winchester. And there I was amazed about his huge library of Burgenland-related books. One thing
he did mention many times was the lack of books in English language dealing with the Burgenland
emigration. He saw the many descendants of Burgenland origin who did not understand German, one
of them being his son.
We found that the comprehensive Burgenland emigration history in Dr. Dujmovits' (German
language) book "Die Amerikawanderung der Burgenländer," would be a great base for
translation to English.
Dr. Dujmovits was also enthusiastic about this idea and he offered to create a new edition of
the Amerikawanderung,
to
incorporate his latest findings on the topic, as a base for the translation.
In 2007, when the Burgenland government delegation visited America, we were able to present the
3rd edition of "Die Amerikawanderung der Burgenländer" to Gerry and to the public.
It took nearly 2 more years to complete the translation.
Unfortunately, Gerry did not live to see the completion of the translated book.
But, in early 2014, I was able to visit Winchester again and present the book “The
Burgenländer Emigration to America” (translated by Robert Strauch) to Gerry’s son Chris. He
liked the book even though he didn't expect to get it.
Being in the area I took the opportunity to visit the gravesites of Gerry and his wife Molly in
Shenandoah Memorial Park cemetery. Praying for my cousin and friend, and for his wife, I
lit a candle I brought from Burgenland.
Obituary: Gerald J. "Gerry" Berghold, 1930 - 2008
Gerald J. "Gerry" Berghold, age 77, of 327 Walker Street, Winchester, died Friday, August 29,
2008 at his home after a lengthy illness. Mr. Berghold was born Sept. 22, 1930, in Allentown,
PA, the son of the late Julius Berghold and Frida Sorger Berghold Carpenter.
Mr. Berghold retired from the Du Pont Company (E.I. Du Pont, de Nemours, Inc.),
Wilmington, DE in 1985 as a manager in the Finance Dept. with 30 years of service, at which time
he relocated to Winchester, VA.
He was an honor graduate of Allentown High School class of 1948. He served in the US
Air Force from 1948-1952, leaving with the rank of Staff Sergeant. During the Korean War, he
was stationed at bases in Texas and England. He graduated from Lehigh University, class
of 1957 with a BS in Accounting. While at Lehigh, he was a corresponding secretary of
Alpha Lambda Omega fraternity and the Town Council.
He was a long time member of the Delaware Blues of the North South Skirmish
Association, and active in the Winchester Glass Club (Glasshoppers). As
founder of the Burgenland Bunch Internet Group and editor of their newsletter, he
received the Austrian Burgenland Gold Medal of Honor (Ehrenzeichen) in 2001 for
his work in promoting Burgenland ethnicity and became a Lifetime Honorable Member of the
International Burgenländisches Gemeinschaft. He was a member of Bethel Evangelical
Lutheran Church, Winchester, where he had served as treasurer, council member and positions
on various committees.
His wife, Molly Beck Berghold, preceded him in death on May 27, 2008. The Bergholds were married
in Packer Memorial Chapel, Lehigh University, and had recently celebrated their
51st anniversary. They have two daughters, Mrs. Jan Carr of Lester, PA, and Mrs. Kim Labiak of
Mountville, PA, and a son, Chris Berghold, Winchester. In addition, he leaves six grandchildren
and three great-grandchildren. Also surviving are a brother, Robert L. Berghold, Boston, MA, a
half-sister, Donna Berghold Kotz of Allentown, PA, as well as other half brothers and sisters.
A memorial service will be held at Bethel Lutheran Church on Saturday at 11:00 A.M., with
Pastors Rev. D. Rhodes Woolly and Rev. Dr. Conrad Christianson officiating. Inurnment at
Shenandoah Memorial Park will be private. Friends may call at any time. Memorial
contributions in lieu of flowers may be made to Bethel Lutheran Church Mission Expansion Fund,
2077 North Frederick Pike, Winchester, VA 22603.
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4) BURGENLAND EMIGRANT OBITUARIES
Louis Sakovits
Louis
Sakovits, 90, of Fishkill, New York, passed away on August 2, 2018. Louis is survived by his
loving wife of almost 67 years Rose, his son Louis, daughters-in-law Shari and Lynne,
grandchildren Jillian, Brian, and Alanna, brother Steven, and other loving family members. Louis
was predeceased by his son Richard, sister Rose, and brother John.
Louis was born on August 19, 1927 to a farming family in Szentpéterfa (aka Petrovo
Selo/Prostrum), Hungary. As a young man, Louis rebelled against the Communist government in his
native Hungary, in service of the Roman Catholic Church. Louis assisted his uncle—a prominent
priest and Hungarian national hero—in helping individuals escape religious and political
persecution under the Communist regime. Louis escaped Communist capture, and was granted
political asylum in Austria in 1948.
Louis emigrated to Ontario, Canada in 1949 as a refugee farm worker where he resided with
Florence and Jack Chanter. Louis was forever grateful to the Chanters and Canada. On a trip to
New York City to thank the Timar family for support they had provided his family in Hungary
after a fire in their village, Louis met his future wife, Rose Timar. They married in 1951, and
ultimately settled in the United States.
Louis lived the American dream. He and Rose raised a happy family in the Bronx, where they were
surrounded by extended family and friends. In later years, they relocated to Yonkers and later
to Fishkill. Louis was devoted to his family, and was most proud of his grandchildren. Louis was
a proud steel worker whose projects included Three River Stadium (Pittsburgh), the World Trade
Center, and the restoration of the Statue of Liberty. Beside his family, Louis remained in touch
with his roots as a farmer, enjoying gardening, working inside and outside the house, cooking,
and maintaining his car. Louis was a sports enthusiast and a Yankees, New York Rangers, and
Minnesota Vikings fan.
A wake will be held on Sunday, August 5, 2018, from 3:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at McHoul Funeral
Home located at 895 NY-82, Hopewell Junction, New York 12533. A funeral service will be held on
Monday, August 6, 2018 at 11:00 a.m. at Saint Denis Roman Catholic Church located at 602 Beekman
Road, Hopewell Junction, New York 12533. A cemetery service at Saint Denis will immediately
follow. Please visit Louis' Book of Memories at www.mchoulfuneralhome.com.
Published in the Poughkeepsie Journal from Aug. 5 to Aug. 6, 2018
Anton Skrapits
Anton
(Tony) Skrapits, 77, of New Lenox, Illinois, passed on Friday after a long illness.
Born in Szentpéterfa (aka Petrovo Selo/Prostrum), Hungary, he immigrated to the U.S. during the
1956 conflict and served as a Red Cross interpreter, speaking five languages as he assisted in
refugee placement. He was a proud American and devout Catholic.
Tony was a resilient, independent and loving man. Tony never met a stranger. Tony was a
successful businessman and spent a long career as a Director of Automotive Services for many
dealerships. Tony was most proud of his family and his home. He loved to garden, golf and serve
his community. He lived his life well, loved deeply and will be missed more than words can
express. God bless you!
Tony leaves behind a loving wife, Judy, of 41 years; five children: Tony, Teresa, Tracy, Kim,
John; eight grandchildren and many close friends and relatives.
The family will receive friends at Kurtz Memorial Chapel, 102 E. Francis Rd, New Lenox, IL 60451
on Friday, August 31, 2018 from 3-9 PM. The family will meet at St. Jude Catholic Church, 241 W.
2nd Ave, New Lenox, IL 60451 on Saturday, September 1, 2018 for a 12:00 Noon Memorial Mass.
Interment private. In lieu of flowers, donations to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital,
www.st.jude.org or Joliet Area Community Hospice, 250 Water Stone Circle, Joliet, IL 60431 would
be appreciated.
Published in The Herald-News on Aug. 28, 2018
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